You think you are suffering? 😏😏
You don't love the life that you are currently living cos it isn't what you expected or worked for?
You are unhappy that things ain't working your way?
Abeg, have a rethink, at least, for you to see this post, it means

Womanism!
That when a 13 yr old girl is given out in marriage to a 60 yr old man, it's our tradition.
But when that 13 year old child has a boyfriend, it's unheard of, she doesn't have home training.

Womanism!
That when a woman propose to her partner, she's considered cheap.
And when a woman demands sex from her husband, she's a slut, it's not her duty to ask.

Womanism!
That when a lady cheats, she's an whore!, She can't even control her libido, a shame!
But when a man cheat, it must be that she isn't satisfying him enough!, she needs to up her game, forgive him and move on.

Womanism!
That when a lady gets raped, she must have dressed indecently or seductively.
And when a lady gets beaten by her partner, she must have riled him or said something!.

Womanism!
That when a woman has a dream bigger than her husband's, she's scared to pursue it.
And when a woman has more than her husband, she must have used his head.

Yet we blame them to asking for gender equality!, who wouldn't, if faced with these issues?
Women aren't weak links, they are not inferior.
But I wouldn't understand because I've never been a woman, but yet I do.
#Womanist.

©2018
Ola-Adeyemo Adetomiwa.

But for how long will we do this?
They keep deceiving us while we wait in dread.
They say the youth are the leaders of tomorrow, but still, they take all the chances to lead away.

Their evil deeds lay waste to many lives.
We will protect you, they say.. But by reducing our population.
By punishing us with our pursuit of happiness.
The streets is drunk with the blood of homo sapiens,
The courts drench of odours of perverted vengeance..

But for how long???
As soon as we think we've seen a saviour, the saint turns rogue, smearing the personality of other saints.
And then, in our state of gloominess, another demon appears to give us a little consolation,and we smile again.. How foolish we are!

But whose fault is it?
We burnt down our huts with the remains of our cigarette.
We flooded our house with the water fetched in greed.
When our nonchalance eats us up like a termite feasts on a wet wood.
When we decide its just our life and it's YOLO!

BUT WHEN IT COMES BACK ON US AND TURNS TO REGRET.
Don't say people didn't warn you enough.
Cos they never loved us!
Everything is a piece of their puzzle all along.
And until we all stand and Say NO...
May you be punished if you complain.

©2018
Ola-Adeyemo Adetomiwa 

Since Today is #BlackFriday all over the whole world..I have personally agreed with my board Members to give out free goodies to everyone that visits this site!☺☺☺☺☺

Believe it or Not,You are solely responsible for your actions

Stop giving unpalatable excuses for the very bad decisions you take,Accept responsibility for your actions and Move On!

You decided not to try harder because you've failed many times?

The environment isn't favouring your growth so you decide to be stagnant?
Do you know the greatest sin in Life is suffering yourself by yourself even when you have the capacity to help yourself.

"You dont need to tell people what your worth is,let your worth tell people who you are''--Obatom
This phrase kept ringing in my head throughout today,and the more I thought about it,I couldn't really place a finger on why I had this thought in my mind until later....
If you keep pronouncing how great you re

Yeah,this is the rising sun..☺☺☺
Soo beautiful is it to behold
The power lies in its strength
The grace that revolves round it...
Aldou it was dark before...all so dark
The brightness can be seen peeking

True Friends are like roses,they may prick and hurt,but know certainly that you'll find happiness with them...
missing this bestie of mine...

I don't seek fame,rather I seek open-mindedness
I seek Brilliance,rather than intelligence
I don't seek Knowledge,rather I seek intuition
Rather than find love,I'd love someone..
I don't seek happiness,rather I'll make someone smile always.
I'd rather make a lot of mistakes than wait for someone to teach me all the times
I'd rather argue with you,than agree with you when you are wrong
I'd rather question your point than accept it without any reasonable option.
I'd rather be emotional and romantic,I'd never be rigid nor frigid...that'snot me.
I'm an optimist,I dislike pessimism
I don't hate 'haters',ratherI pray for more of them to come.
I value my friends, rather than insult or devalue them.
I seek God,rather than depending solely on a Mortal..
I'd rather pray than confront my problem with my strength
I'd rather cry on a friend's shoulder than hide my feelings and cry inside..
And above all,I'd rather be a fool to learn than be smart and not learn
‪#‎ ThatsMe‬..
‪#‎ BeWhoYouAre
Obatom©®